Then you go for a couple of dates, eventually kiss and by the third to fifth date sex enters the picture, unless you express you want to wait further, but are still interested.Sex doesn’t mean you are in a relationship with them though, it doesn’t even mean you are exclusive.If you ask them how they are doing they will assume you ask as you want to know, not to be polite.Likewise, if you talk to them they will assume you do so because you want to get to know them, not because you are being polite (unless you are left alone with them in an uncomfortable situation, of course).If he is a student or has a job that doesn’t pay very much, he might even count on it.
It’s not that the Germans don’t talk, but they tend to stick to themselves unless they are at a party or some other social gathering where the purpose is to meet new and old friends.This may also be why they like getting drunk and partying…In America it’s more common to approach people randomly and also to talk about random things.Everyone here tends to ask how you are doing and have a little chat with you without for that matter actually wanting to make friends with you. This means they get into much deeper discussions and they will reply with a lot more candor to your questions.It’s not necessarily a serious relationship , but you are trying out what it’s like being a couple, as opposed to trying out dating five different people simultaneously.If you want to see others and not get exclusive, you have to talk to the guy about this from get-go or he will think you are messing around with him, unless, of course, he lives in America and is used to the scene over here.